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Releasing
Resistance
Overcoming Negative Emotion &
Developing Detachment
This is a great way to lessen your burden, and in so doing, the burden of
others!
The first technique is very effective
for releasing resistance to anyone or anything in your daily life, past or
present. It is especially useful when feeling resentful, beaten up
emotionally, traumatised or victimised.
The second is for when you witness an
event that is upsetting or traumatic.
BLESS ALL OF IT!
Blessing is
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to invite something or someone into alignment with the
highest good
♥
to open a perspective that allows and acknowledges the
sovereignty, humanity and sacredness of the self and others
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to release resistance
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to shower with grace, life force, freedom, beneficiality,
etc
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to allow absolutely the path to learning taken by others
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to invite fully into flow as you come yourself into
compassion without judgement
When
you get reactively emotional, or feel beaten up by something, it is
invaluable to recognise that an old pattern is being triggered. Appreciate
the situation as a gift telling you that you have something to clear. This
is moves you through resistance into a higher vibration, or expression of
consciousness. It’s a process of engaging your higher consciousness or
witnessing presence, and inviting it into the process. Remember we can’t
solve our issues at the same level we created them!
You can
also use this process to release aches & pains in the body. We seem to be
plagued by stiffness and flu like symptoms as the energy intensifies. When
you release the held resistance[s] the energy flows, and any discomfort
dissolves too. There may be layers of it... gift yourself the time to
clear them. Your vibration will rise exponentially when you step into your
power to affect your experience.
Your
reactivity and any unpleasant feelings simply show you the next issue to
be to be resolved on your path to full clarity and freedom.
Take
your time with this – keep finding more things to bless & aspects of the
situation & ways to think about the issues. Use your own words, combined
with the energy of this Blessing. Keep adding anything you can think of.
Even the process & the distraction serves you!
“I
bless my feelings & this experience & thank them for the message. I love
them for their service to me. I give thanks for this new opportunity to
move beyond my self illusion.
I bless and thank the person or event that has acted as a catalyst in the
matter, for there participation in my process of getting clear. And I
release it, & them, with love. I bless anything that I have taken
personally I and release it.
I bless, thank and release every person and event that has contributed to
my having the issue at all, right back to the original instigator. [which
may have been lifetimes ago]. I bless everyone and everything in any way
connected to my creation of this issue, and thank and release it all and
offer love and appreciation for there part in my growth.
I bless and offer my apologies to anyone who may at any time have been
hurt by my thoughts or actions or reactivity around this issue, including
myself. I offer love and thanks for their participation.”
By this
time I can't usually even remember what it was I was reacting to, but you
can keep going if you need to.
If you
feel are just going through the motions, do it anyway - the shift will
happen, it just may take a little longer. If you feel resistance, bless
the resistance as messenger, and call yourself into willingness to move
into flow at all levels in your creation – your extended self. Just keep
finding new stuff to bless till you do feel better - remember it's your
thoughts that drive your feelings. And when you change your thoughts, with
the intent to heal, that's exactly what you get. This process dissolves
the core issue, or 'harmonic discordance'.]
ANY
UNPLEASANT FEELING CAN ALSO BE INVITED INTO FLOW
Instead
of regarding the feeling, physical or emotional, as “bad” [that’s a
judgement based on a subjective, learn response] try seeing it as simply a
feeling – a sensation. It may be intense, but try interpreting it as a
“sensation” you are observing, rather than staying emotionally involved
with it & judging it as “pain” or “fear” or “sadness” that you are
“suffering from” or “stuck in”. This process also uses your witnessing
consciousness, and invites some detachment.
Now
just allow the sensation you are observing to simply be there. Observe
it and say to it and yourself –
“I
allow this sensation to be just as it is.”
Allow
yourself to move into this space. It make take practice to find that space
consistently.
Don’t
interpret the feeling. And don’t be concerned if you weren’t even sure of
what it was in the first place – sometimes our feelings are just milling
around being uncomfortable or confusing. That’s fine – you don’t need a
story for them. The story just defines them land locks them into place.
I allow this sensation to be as it is. Observe it subtly
shift – to relax. This is because you just moved out of resistance into
allowing!
Now say
–
“As I
allow this sensation to simply remain and be as it is, I also now allow it
move, to be released, to dissolve. I bless and allow it to be however it
is”
And now
go off and give your attention to something else…
do not
hang around watching it & poking it with a stick to see if it’s gone…
that’s not allowing, - that’s doubt, holding on, resistance and control.
That’s what put the pain there in the first place! You are now moving on….
WITNESSED EVENTS
When we witness an event that upsets us, either personally or through the
media, this is something that we can do to positively affect our own
wellbeing and the situation itself!
Remember
that the only thing that lowers your vibration is resistance. Resistance
is expressed as fear or judgement. You do no service to those who suffer
by bringing your vibration down, in empathy or sympathy, to meet theirs,
in a place of resistance.
Allowing the life force to flow freely through you raises your vibration.
This flow is created by allowing and gratitude, and felt as love and joy.
We achieve this flow by honouring the creations of ourselves and others.
The most
positive and effective thing you can do to influence events that you are
not in a position to interact with directly, is to engage your compassion
and to allow a space for those whose suffering you would relieve to come
and meet you energetically, at a higher level of vibration. We do this
most effectively by allowing each one to have their experience as it is,
and to bless it and them.
We do not,
at the level of human consciousness, have the perspective to be in a
position to judge any person or situation. We do not know or see the
bigger picture, or how the circumstances we are witnessing came into
being; we do not always know or how events might be seen from another
level. Much is taking place in all our lives, at many levels, to clear old
dense energies, so that we can come into our power and say ENOUGH!
to those who seek to oppress & control - so that we can release our life
force and passion and take charge of our own creations.
And some
of these events are inviting us to open further into compassion. Often
this path leads through anger and grief and apparent loss. All this is
being played out on the planet at the moment. All this is necessary, here
and now, on the path into balance and beyond, into clarity, to Individual
and Connective Sovereignty and the freedom of Actualised Freewill.
We are
all seeking our divinity in the best way we know how! And we
each serve best by allowing, by opening ourselves to the fullest flow of
Light through our bodies that we are capable of in any moment. We do this
by consistently expanding our capacity to accept and to love, to flow out
and to receive, and by consciously connecting to and expressing our joy.
We are in these bodies in order to learn how to bring spirit & matter
fully together as one. We facilitate this by holding in our hearts,
beyond personal preference, the highest vision, love and compassion for
all others no matter how obnoxious they or their actions can
seem.
This
exercise [defined as a strengthening, empowering practice
to acquire or expand skill, knowledge, virtue,
grace, etc.] is done from the
perspective of your witnessing consciousness, of your higher self; of that
part of you that knows that you are not your thoughts, your feelings, or
your body, and observes that you have those tools and the freewill to
express yourself through them as you choose.
1
Bless the victim. Simply open to your compassion and bless them and
what you’re witnessing.
2
Bless the perpetrator. You are not being asked to approve, or
condone in any way: just accept that you being asked not to judge.
3
Bless yourself as the witness, and bless all others who also witnessed
this. This is important in letting the energy flow.
If you
have witnessed something lately that has upset or disturbed you close your
eyes, remember the event, and apply the blessing.
Then
revisit your remembering. Does it feel different? It should… you just made
a change in the energy flow of the world! Remember that a person who lives
and creates consciously is a million times more effective than someone who
creates by default. At that rate we only need 66,000 fully conscious,
fully responsible souls on the planet to fully actualise the Free New
Earth! Go for it!
Shely Te’An © 2006
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